Is It Wise to Place Happiness Outside Self?

Is It Wise to Place Happiness Outside Self?

Dependence From Happiness Outside Self

In her thought-provoking post Why I No Longer Depend on Anyone Else for Happiness, Fun, or Excitement, Matana Williams shares her experiences with disappointment by placing happiness outside her control -- e.g., happiness outside self.  She shared these insights:

1. Expecting someone else to make me happy is objectifying them.

2. I alone am responsible for my happiness and excitement in life.

3. You can reclaim your power.

Principle-Centered Happiness

I've personally found that placing your happiness outside something you control can lead to dependence, resentment, and generally feeling reactionary.  Have a purpose -- through a clear sense of your "Big Why," core values, and set of principles -- is a great way to cut through the clutter of everyday life.  These tools also provide guideposts to a more happy life.  

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In addition to the Friday Happiness Post and  Thriving Attorney, Darin M. Klemchuk is founder of Klemchuk LLP, a litigation, intellectual property, and transactional law firm located in Dallas, Texas.  He also co-founded Project K, a charity devoted to changing the world one random act of kindness at a time.  Click to read more about Darin Klemchuk's practice as an intellectual property lawyer. 

 

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